Do you ever see the electric sparks flying around in old Frankenstein movies and think “that looks hot!”
Electroshock toys have become a staple part of BDSM and kinky sex in the past few decades, getting safer and safer as technology progresses.
While many different electro wands can be used as fetish products with varying degrees of intensity, the original Violet Wand stands above them all.
Here we’re going to take a look at violet wand safety, tips, and different versions you can buy at various price points.
Let’s go!
What is a Violet Wand?
A Violet Wand is an electric wand which is generally used for electrosex and BDSM play. There are many cheap violet wand alternatives on the market, as well as the original Violet Wand brand products.
Violet Wands produce a low-current, high-frequency electric shock that can zap the skin and cause a sting. With the proper safety precautions, they can be used on most parts of the body except the eyes.
Some modern electric massage wands are also used for cosmetic purposes to brighten the skin and encourage hair follicle growth.
Violet wand attachments
You can buy different violet wand electrodes and attachments from the official Violet Wand store or from specialist sex toy sites selling alternative versions of the device. The Violet Wand electrodes are usually made from glass, though they can be made from other materials such as metal too.
All Violet Wand electrodes are different, but generally speaking:
- Broader/wider attachments spread the shock out, so the sting is usually less intense
- More precise attachments concentrate the shock, making it more intense
- Metal-tipped attachments are usually more painful
- Most electrodes are NOT safe for bodily insertion (special insertion-safe attachments are available)
In terms of shape and size, here are some of the most common Violet Wand attachments:
- Mushroom body electrodes are flat and wide, spreading the shock across a wide area
- Ball tip probes
concentrate the shock into a small ball tip for added sting
- Electro whip attachments can be used to flog a partner and deliver an electric shock
- Electrode combs spread the electricity across the teeth of a comb, hitting multiple points at once
We’ve scratched the surface here, but there are many different types of wands and attachments to explore.
How does a violet wand feel?
This is totally subjective and depends on the type of wand, attachment, and setting you’re using. There are also many other factors that affect the feel, such as what part of the body you’re using it on, how close it is to the skin, and whether the bottom is wearing clothing or not.
In general, however, most people describe a Violet Wand as feeling like a static electricity shock, but a bit more intense. For more painful settings and precise attachments, the sensation is often described as similar to tattoo needles piercing the skin.
As with most forms of BDSM play, I would recommend a “Traffic Light System” to indicate when the pain becomes too much:
- Green = this is fine, you can increase the intensity
- Yellow = this is painful and I’m reaching my pain limit
- Red = stop immediately, this hurts too much
It's simple, yet effective. Don’t electrocute your partner more than they like.
Violet Wand history
Violet wands started out as Violet Rays – old-fashioned medical devices used to treat ailments in the 1900s. The original Violet Ray prototype was invented in 1893 by Nikola Tesla and was designed to be used for electrotherapy.
You can still buy Tesla-style Violet Wands for BDSM purposes, and if you look in specialist antique shops, you can find antique Violet Rays from the early 20th century.
Obviously, technology has progressed A LOT since then, so I would strongly recommend avoiding antique Violet Wands for sexual purposes. They are much less stable and safe than their modern counterparts.
How to Use a Violet Wand
There are 3 different ways to use a violet wand – direct, indirect, and reverse.
Whatever method you choose, first make sure that your violet wand is switched off and attach the electrode by gently placing it into the top of the wand. Do not twist the electrode as this could damage it. Start on the lower settings and increase the power until you reach the desired intensity.
We have more in-depth safety tips in the next section.
Direct method
This is the easiest and most common method used for electric wand play. Many e-stim fans will only use the direct method.
1. Select an electrode which is suitable for direct shocks.
2. Turn the device on and hover the wand around 1-2cm above the surface of your partner’s skin. Once you get close enough, a bolt of electricity will jump to their skin and shock them.
3. You can also perform this through certain clothes such as cotton T-shirts – it will make the shock more intense.
4. Try placing the wand directly on their skin or hovering it at different distances to create different sensations.
Indirect method
This method sees the electricity flow through YOU, so when you touch your partner, they will get an electric shock from your body. It’s a really unique form of E-stim!
1. First, you need to attach a body contact cable to the wand while it’s turned off.
2. Now attach the other end to your own body. You might want to place it inside your bra or waistband, for example.
3. When you touch your partner, they will receive an electric shock!
4. Different movements and contacts create different levels of intensity. Try kissing or performing oral sex while transmitting current to your partner!
You can quite literally have an electrifying blowjob.
Reverse method
This is the rarest and most difficult Violet Wand technique, but it’s worth a try for more experienced electrosex fans. This causes the electric current to flow through your partner, creating sparks when you flog them with materials that conduct electricity.
1. Use a body contact cable – attach one end to the wand and the other end to your partner’s skin.
2. Turn on the wand – your partner will not feel anything initially.
3. Flog your partner with toys and fetish products that conduct electricity – watch the sparks fly!
4. Make sure that your partner maintains contact with the Violet Wand cable until it is switched off.
Are Violet Wands Dangerous?
Violet Wands are not dangerous if you use them correctly and take appropriate safety measures.
Always make sure you’re using a reputable product from the Violet Wand store or a reputable BDSM gear website like The Stockroom.
DO NOT use antique wands that were designed for old-timey medical therapy. It’s not worth the risk.
Here are my top tips for using Violet Wand gear safely:
1. Keep the wand away from your eyes, and do not put it inside you unless the attachment is specially designed for bodily insertion.
2. Stay FAR AWAY from electronic devices in the room – the wand creates an electromagnetic field that can cause electronics to short-circuit and break.
BDSM Expert Morgan Thorne explains how she broke her old Blackberry cell phone by getting it too close to an electric wand.
3. Do not wear any metal body jewelry that conducts electricity – you could burn yourself.
4. Do not use violet wands if you or your partner have any electrical medical devices such as pacemakers, hearing aids, etc. If you have heart problems, you should avoid these toys.
5. Do not use one of these devices if you or your partner is pregnant.
6. Certain types of Violet Wand create ozone in the air, so make sure you’re using the toy in a well-ventilated room.
7. Gently push and pull the attachments in/out of the wand – do not twist them or you could damage the ends.
A lot of these tips probably seem like common sense, but a lot can go wrong when you’re waving electricity around naked people.
8. It’s best to give the wand a rest after 20-30 minutes of use.
9. Keep the sparks away from any flammable liquids or materials. Always stay away from water or anything else that conducts electricity.
10. Be wary that glass attachments can shatter – be careful when handling them.
11. Though the wand can be used through clothes, bear in mind that certain fabrics like Nylon could melt or burn if zapped with electricity.
12. ALWAYS make sure that wand is turned off when not in use or when switching attachments – you can buy a special footswitch to quickly turn the device off and on when switching electrodes or stopping play temporarily.
A lot can go wrong when you’re using electric fetish products, so it’s better to be safe than sorry. If you want more information on electrosex safety, this YouTube video goes into more detail.
Top 5 Violet Wands
Here are my best Violet Wand recommendations – I’ve included the original brand as well as cheap Violet Wand alternatives:
5-Star Tesla Violet Wand Kit
The OG electric massage wand.
The price is high, but this is the OG electric wand kit in the old-fashioned Tesla style, giving that authentic look and feel to the product. This kit comes with 5 attachments – a mushroom electrode, rake electrode, curved Y electrode, condenser rod, and ball tip probe. All the attachments are available in red or purple colors to match your desired aesthetic.
This kit is designed for advanced and experienced users – do not use this kit if you’re a beginner.
Kinklab Neon Wand Electrosex Kit
For beginners and mid-level electrosex fans
This is a solid-state neon electric wand kit. Without going into a physics lecture, that basically means that it’s safer and better-suited to less-experienced users. This Kinklab kit is also significantly cheaper than the real Violet Wand, coming in at around $100. It comes with 4 different attachments to play with, giving you tons of ways to get started in e-stim sex.
Neon Violet Wand Nova Mini Kit
Small, tough, and portable
One of the bestselling Violet Wand kits, the Nova Mini Kit is perfect for e-stim on the go, being small and lightweight enough to carry around with you. It’s also great for beginners to e-stim and those who are trying to save money while getting their freak on. It comes with 3 electrodes – the mushroom electrode, the ball tip electrode, and a tongue-style electrode.
Kinklab Agent Noir Neon Wand Kit
Torture that helpless secret agent!
This mid-level neon wand kit comes with a wide range of 9 different attachments, from mushroom electrodes to combs and even electrified whips. It also comes with a “Power Tripper” for indirect play, allowing you to conduct electricity through your body and give your partner a shock when you touch them!
The Agent Noir kit is all kept in a sturdy metal briefcase, adding to the whole secret agent midnight rendezvous feel. 007 is jelly I’m sure.
Cum-clusion
I hope you enjoyed this guide to electro wands! If you’re an experienced electrosex fan looking to splash out on something high-end, I’d recommend the 5 Star Tesla Kit. However, if you’re less experienced, I’d recommend the Kinklab Neon Wand Kit or the sexy Agent Noir Kit instead.
Don’t forget that you’re playing with electric currents here, so take all the safety precautions, be careful, and most importantly… have fun!